Niev.20.Germany.Asian studies & japanese.
Why are the guys I don’t like chasing after me, but all the guys I do like don’t seem to ever feel the same?” The answer to this age old question is simple. Around the guys you don’t want, you own your standards. Whereas with the guys you do want, you start dropping your standards and think ‘as long as I get close to him, it will work out.’ What makes a woman attractive, are her standards.
Anyone who reads this, I wish for you to think and praise one of the greatest men our world has seen. He is a hero.
Because I am constantly late for things. I am late for class everyday. I reply late, understand late, sleep to late. And still I jump as soon as somebody else takes time. People who get my jokes too late. People who take longer to understand. People who don’t reply after I sent them a text make go crazy. I hate it. And I have no effing right to. Impatience is my worst worst worst trait. I wished I was more relaxed. Good things take time. That’s what makes them special right? But I am so weak. Waiting literally kills me. Ugh.
Be very careful about moving in on an Aries girl. She wants to be the leader in the love affair. Better be sure you have her heart safely in your pocket before you try to grab her around the waist and kiss her goodnight. Otherwise, she may give you a sharp right hook to the jaw and run like a frightened deer. Don’t be misled. The reason for her running isn’t maidenly modesty. She’s not afraid of your passionate intentions. Those she can handle. Her flight is based on the fear of getting tangled up with a worshiping slave or a lovestruck puppy dog, either one of whom would bore her to tears. There’s the typical Arien contradiction in her: she doesn’t want to be obviously chased, yet she quickly loses interest if you’re too detached. She doesn’t want a completely domineering male, but neither will she warm up to a man who sits adoringly at her feet. Before love can bring her happiness, the Aries woman must meet the eternal Mars challenge-her strong desire to control the lover, conflicting with her secret wish to be controlled by him.
That’s so me
I am fundamentally an optimist. Whether that comes from nature or nurture, I cannot say. Part of being optimistic is keeping one’s head pointed toward the sun, one’s feet moving forward. There were many dark moments when my faith in humanity was sorely tested, but I would not and could not give myself up to despair. That way lays defeat and death.
Nelson Mandela (via aidanhiggins)